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Little Edie
She was Jackie Kennedy's cousin, but she is best known as one of the two subjects of the 1975 documentary GREY GARDENS by the Maysles Brothers. Born into an aristocracy from which she was rejected, she became the unlikely hero of the film that launched her reputation as a fashion icon. But why would someone living in a run down mansion with her ailing mother still hold the fascination of millions of people over 30 years later?
It's very difficult to keep the line between the past and the present. You know what I mean? It's awfully difficult.
I first heard about her when I was 13 or 14. My mother would talk disapprovingly about those "crazy relatives of Jackie's living in that filthy house with all of those cats." It was only background noise to my teenage brain, but I still filed it away in the section for "things not to be when I grow up."
I never had a split personality. I have a hell of a temper! It's Southern!
When my daughter Katie graduated from high school, I decided to take her on a mother daughter trip to New York as a gift. I knew that something called "Grey Gardens" had just won the Tony for best musical and bought tickets. I had only heard that Christine Ebersole was brilliant but didn't know anything about the play itself.
'Course, I'm mad about animals, but raccoons and cats become a little bit boring. I mean, for too long a time.
We were lucky enough to get seats in the third row and when it started, I was instantly mesmerized by the characters in this bizarre family drama. It wasn't until I read the playbill at intermission that the "crazy relatives of Jackie's living in that filthy house with all of those cats" memory resurfaced.
We've had 300 cats altogether. Now we have twelve. It's true about old maids, they don't need men if they have cats.
Psychologists and psychiatrists have cyber diagnosed her "condition" and the general public still psycho babbles about her odd behavior in countless blogs and chat rooms. At first, I questioned my own sanity and decided that I must be a little crazy myself, because I found "Little Edie" to be refreshingly genuine. Ultimately, I concluded that though she did, most likely, have some type of mental health issue, and that I am still maybe a little crazy, I am mostly just bored. The world is full of trend following, society pleasing, status seeking, self promoting, imitations of socialites, politicians and celebrities, and in Little Edie, I was relieved to finally see someone unapologetically being real.
Eventually everything will grow back; then they'll rush in and pull it all down again. They do it to everybody. They want everybody to be the same. You can't have anything different.
Since my job is centered around fashion, I am hyper aware of the tendency to follow styles and keep up on the latest thing coming out of Paris, New York, Milan and in recent years, L.A. But a part of me wishes there would be a massive rebellion of everyone following their own definition of style. It's enough to drive anyone crazy; "the 40's are in" "the Hippie look is in" "the 80's are back", "asymmetrical dresses are hot" etc. I try to keep a healthy balance between what's in and what is timelessly beautiful. Staying on top of it all is exhausting and those on the slippery slope of staying ahead of trends, convinced that they are original, are actually, the most predictable of all.
No, no, this is the revolutionary costume! I never wear this in East Hampton! I went to two cocktail parties in East Hampton to stop the gossip about my being a recluse. Most of them looked at me like I was from Mars. I shouldn't have gone; I don't drink. If you don't do what everybody else does out there, if you don't go to the Maidstone Club or join the Garden Club, you're written off as crazy.
Edith Bouvier Beale wasn't a fashion designer, and though Vogue and other fashion magazines devoted issues to her style, it wasn't brilliant or truly groundbreaking. It was just her own and that's what made it revolutionary, even to designers themselves. Calvin Klein and John Galliano have created "Little Edie inspired fashions" and Marc Jacobs even designed the Little Edie bag, but it was the younger Beale's courage and originality that made her style so memorable. Ironically, copying her style goes against everything her very unique character represented.
But you see in dealing with me, the relatives didn't know that they were dealing with a staunch character and I tell you if there's anything worse than dealing with a staunch woman... S-T-A-U-N-C-H. There's nothing worse, I'm telling you. They don't weaken, no matter what.
The head scarf with a rhinestone brooch, the leotard, or dress tied in a knot just below the hips are now definitive Little Edie style statements. People have grabbed on to her identity and tried to make it their own. She has even become a popular character for party goers to emulate on Halloween. Now, there is an HBO movie starring Drew Barrymore and Jessica Lange that will most likely increase the world's fascination with the original residents of Grey Gardens. But did we all miss the message of Edie's publically exposed life? I hate to spoil the party, but I think so. I believe we should all be in search of the "little insert your first name here" that is uniquely our own. That doesn't mean that we can't look at Edith Bouvier Beale's life and take delight in her contributions to ours, it just means that we don't need to imitate everything turn everything unique and interesting into something standard.
This is the best thing to wear for today, you understand. Because I don't like women in skirts and the best thing is to wear pantyhose or some pants under a short skirt, I think. Then you have the pants under the skirt and then you can pull the stockings up over the pants underneath the skirt. And you can always take off the skirt and use it as a cape. So I think this is the best costume for today.
Don't get me wrong, original style doesn't mean ignoring the creations of talented fashion designers. But even within the safe harbor of current runway styles, people can individualize their own look. You can reject those styles that don't work and refuse to compromise when it comes to quality! You can wear a Galliano top with an Alessandro Dell'acqua kimono jacket and Target jeans (some of the best, in my opinion). Mix any of those with something vintage, and you have a truly original look. That's what I love about vintage clothing; it can always blend into whatever is happening in fashion today and add a one of a kind twist to any outfit.
I didn't have time taking care of mother to get out and buy any clothes. So I used what was left of mine and mother's in the attic.
So relax, slow down, you don't have to rush out and buy everything with fringe for "that runway look" or put on a big hat because "hats are in." If everyone "who is anyone" is wearing this season's hot shade of green, dare to wear something in your own shade of yellow or orange, or whatever color makes your complexion glow. Just pick and choose clothing that makes you look and feel your best. I, of course, hope that Vintage clothing and accessories will be among your first choices, but most of all, I hope that you never lose the "little you" that will courageously show your own uniquely beautiful style to the world!
All bold italic phrases are quotes from Little Edie, Edith Bouvier Beale.

Little Edie

Edith Bouvier Beale

Christine Ebersole as Edie

Edie Beale

Edie Beale in famous fur coat

Little Edie

Edith Bouvier Beale Italian Vogue

Marc Jacobs "Little Edie" Bag

Galliano does Little Edie

Drew Barrymore in HBO's Grey Gardens

Big Edie and Little Edie



Grey Gardens
A Vintage Fairy Tale
Once Upon a time, a girl named Sarah accepted an invitation to a ball. Not only is Sarah a vital part of the DRESS family, she is also my goddaughter. According to the Fairy Godmother handbook, it would be my challenge to find a magical gown that would transform this jeans and tee-shirt beauty into a proper princess for the 2009 inaugural balls. Getting no help from mice, bluebirds or chipmunks, I was on my own, and needed to consider every gown in my inventory until the right ones appeared.
If Sarah were purchasing a current designer gown, she wouldn’t have to worry about another woman arriving in the same ensemble because the Inaugural balls offer gown registries. If Sarah was the future first lady, she’d have no need of a fairy godmother because designers would be clamoring for her attention. Michelle Obama will have more than enough options, and the designer she chooses will be rocketed into stardom almost as quickly as anything on Oprah’s “favorite things” list.
If you’ve visited the Smithsonian’s first ladies exhibit, you are probably familiar with a few of the gowns worn to inaugural balls. Martha Washington wore hand painted salmon pink faille featuring butterflies, insects and flowers. The silk brocade of Caroline Harrison’s gown was designed by Indiana artist Mary Williamson in a pattern of Burr oak trees that grew along the Tippecanoe Creek battle site. The first inaugural gown of the 20th century was created for Helen Taft in silk chiffon with floral embroidery in metallic thread, rhinestones and beads. Florence Harding wore a dress that was the epitome of the flapper era, made of silk and tulle, adorned with pearlized sequins and gold beads. Though her husband never had a formal inaugural ball, Eleanor Roosevelt wore an Arnold Constable pink rayon crepe gown trimmed with lace and sequins to an inaugural reception. One of my personal favorites has to be the 1950’s dress Nettie Rosenstein designed for Mamie Eisenhower in pink silk and studded with thousands of rhinestones. Ethel Frankau of Bergdorf Goodman created the iconic sheath with cape that Jackie Kennedy designed herself. Nancy Reagan chose a one shoulder Galanos sheath of lace over silk, Barbara Bush wore a classic 80’s blue velvet and satin gown by Arnold Scaasi for the 1989 inaugural balls. Oscar de la Renta has the distinct honor of having designed gowns for two first ladies, Hillary Clinton and Barbara Bush.
How does one begin to shop for a vintage dress for an important occasion? Usually, when selecting clothing for others for special events, a few pieces will pop into my head instantly. If those don’t work, I start with a process of elimination. It is always a challenge to find the perfect vintage gown in the right color or pattern that needs no alterations to fit properly. Altering important vintage pieces can affect their value, so if you are purchasing for investment purposes that needs to be a consideration. Since I knew I wanted Sarah to wear an important piece, sizing gave me the first of my elimination criteria. Sarah also needed something elegant, sophisticated, and castle worthy. I eliminated dresses that were too short, busy, bright, or overly embellished. The color had to be in the jewel tone or precious metals family and the style had to be fitted at the waist with a long, fuller skirt. Once I’d selected the gowns that fell into those categories, the choices became manageable. Whether shopping for a dress to an inaugural ball, or a cocktail party, it’s important to know what style looks best on your body type, and what colors work with your skin tone. Once you’ve made those determinations, shopping becomes less overwhelming and more focused.
Sarah started trying on the group of about 12 gowns I’d selected, so I gave her my best advice on how to choose a dress; “You have to absolutely love it”. If you start saying things like, “this one could work” or “I think I like this one” or “I like it but..” you have to take it off! After about 3 lukewarm responses, she put on the green Grecian Howard Greer silk chiffon gown, smiled and said “I love this!” The look on her face was all that I needed to know that my fairy godmother powers were working and we’d found one of the two gowns she needed. When I finished zipping the stunning 1950’s Ceil Chapman black lace over copper satin dress, the familiar smile returned and I knew we’d found the second gown for our princess.
Once every 4 years on a few nights in Washington, DC, the inauguration of a president is celebrated with elegant balls filled with women dressed in designer gowns of every size, shape and color. This year’s notably historic inauguration will bring women from all over America and it makes this fairy godmother very proud to know that Sarah will be one of the most beautiful in attendance. I hope that she feels enchanting in her vintage gowns and that these are only two of her many happily ever after evenings.
Bibbidi-Bobbidi-Boo
I've been looking through my inventory this week trying to find the absolutely perfect early 60's ensemble for my pretty twenty-something niece. She and her boyfriend are going to be Betty and Don Draper for Halloween this year... Which made me start thinking..why are people of all ages drawn to a show that seems to be, at first glance, about aloof, chain smoking ad executives and their beauty pageant wives?
Maybe you've never heard of Betty and Don, or perhaps you only watched the first episode MAD MAN and have never understood the hype. After all, like one of my daughters said after doing just that, "I'm not really that interested in watching a show about a secretary."
You were probably sure you'd already figured out who would play both the heroes and villains and assumed the story lines would be nothing more than predictably formulaic. Even though you even reluctantly acknowledged the period perfect sets and costumes, you eventually changed the channel to PBS or a dramatic cable series with real, hard edged plot lines that are relevant to today. You might have even patted yourself on the back for being in a superior intellectual class.
Maybe those of us who continued to watch, and thought we'd discovered a fun new secret, weren't much more enlightened. Initially, we enjoyed watching to proclaim "how far we've come" and we almost looked forward to cringing at the sexist comments and collectively gasping at the absurd amount of alcohol consumed. Those of us who are women felt superior to the silly little wives who seemed to find happiness only in maintaining facades and appearances. And men were very happy not to identify with the arrogant male characters who focused only on their careers and achieving success.
If you would have continued to watch into the middle of the first season, you would have soon discovered, along with the rest of us, that Mad Men is only disguised as a weekly dramatic series. It is really more of a voyeuristic lens, offering both a retrospective and introspective view into the struggles that both men and women face in regards to sexism, marriage, divorce, family dynamics, gender roles, aging, racial issues, addictions, infidelity, sexuality, and even mental illness. The characters are layered with complexity and just as you are comfortable with loathing one or loving another, the tables turn on your perceptions and you start to realize that, in Mad Men, mirroring life itself, absolutely nothing is what it seems.
You almost forget that the show takes place in the 1960's and discover that your own struggles aren't as unique or revolutionary as you'd thought. The wives, on the verge of valium while trying to maintain balance on very shaky pedestals, are anything but silly and the men you initially hated for their obvious ignorance, demand your compassion and empathy. The timeless human issues are revealed and you start to think that maybe we haven't come that far after all.
What does all of this have to do with clothing? Well, I said you "almost" forget that Mad Men takes place in the 60's. The authenticity of the set and the talents of The Costume Designer, Janie Bryant, remind us every week of exactly to which era we are time traveling. The attention to detail and accuracy that is behind the clothing selections appears natural and effortless, an indication of sheer brilliance. It is easy to provide costumes for a 50's sock hop, wartime clothing for a swing dance scene, or depression farm clothing for a production of The Grapes of Wrath, but Ms. Bryant has taken ordinary people and given them a style identity without using Kitsch or stereotypes. The right people are wearing the right clothes. You'd be surprised at how many major Hollywood movies and network television shows get that wrong. I personally get annoyed when a character supposedly earning a modest wage goes to work in a Marc Jacobs suit or wearing pair of $400 shoes. In Mad Men, for example, Betty Draper wears higher end 1960's designer clothing while the secretaries wear a range of styles that are more affordable. Their clothing also matures with them, reflecting the realities of changing ages, stages of life, and salaries. After all, costume selection is just as important as costume design in establishing the personalities of characters, and it is insulting to the viewers to assume that making the actors and actresses look attractive is enough.
Ms. Bryant's sublime choices are the trademark of this show and everything from the shoes to the jewelry is appropriate to the personality, socio economic status and age of the characters wearing them. One ad campaign suggested on a Mad Men episode that "most women want to be either a Marilyn or a Jackie." The majority of women know that those kind of absolutes just don't work for them. Janie Bryant is in touch with that reality and shows that through a huge spectrum of clothing choices, people can be defined beyond rich vs. poor, old vs. young, Jackie vs. Marilyn. She understands that in the real world, most of us live somewhere in between and that clothing can be a perfect reflection of that reality.
So, just in case Janie Bryant is bored one night and finds this little piece somewhere in cyberspace, I'd like to say, "thank you" for taking your job seriously and for understanding that what we wear is more than clothing and that how and when we wore it matters. By respecting the details, you've shown respect to the people who actually wore those outfits every day and to those of us, even humble vintage clothing dealers, who value what we do. Hopefully others will find your example inspirational and be challenged to do the same.
Isabell Gerhart
My friend Ginger lost one of her teeth on Oscar de la Renta's showroom floor. In mid century America, only the most serious buyers were invited into the exclusive Manhattan showrooms of the designers who defined the styles of the period. Ginger's childhood was filled with visits to those very showrooms, and as the portrait to the left, painted of her at the Plaza Hotel suggests, her life paralleled that of the fictional character Eloise.
"I remember the designers, of course, but mostly, I remember the models who would take me in the back when my parents needed to talk business, and offer me a snack. Of course, the only thing they had to offer was TAB."
Ginger's parents, Norwin and Isabell Gerhart, 2 of the biggest buyers of couture at the time, traveled to New York from Texas several times a year. The glamorous couple were known as the fashion king and queen of Houston. They took New York by storm with their business savvy, style and Texas sized personalities. Their store, ISABELL GERHART, was a Houston mecca for fashion savvy socialites.
The Gerharts ignited their fashionable reputations when the Shamrock hotel opened in Houston in 1949. It was THE event of the century and is still said to be the biggest social gala ever held in Houston. The Gerharts made the decision to bring the dresses to Houston for the elite who were to attend the event. The fashion houses in New York were filled with speculation about the "chick from Houston buying all those dresses". The event put ISABELL GERHART on the map of exclusivity that skyrocketed the store to success.
The Gerharts hosted spectacular parties in their home with orchestras and guest lists that read like a who's who of important designers of the 20th Century. Ginger, along with her siblings Gary, Greg and Ann, would peek from the top of the stairs and watch their parents hold court with Diane von Furstenburg, Diane Freis, Bill Travilla, Michael Novarese, Harve Bernard, Tina Leser, Ceil Chapman, Halston, Adele Simpson, Pauline Trigere, Carolina Herrera, Randolph Duke, Claire McCardell, Oscar de la Renta, and many more fashion icons of the time. As Ginger's childhood collection of pencils illustrates,their parents also knew Christian Dior, Caroline Roehm, Mary McFadden, Geoffrey Beene, Bob Mackie, Leonard, Louis Feraud, Nicole Miller, Pattulo Jo Copeland, Gloria Sachs, Albert Nipon, Victor Costa, Wragge, Reiko, and many other fashion greats.
"These people were like movie stars," remarked Gary Gerhart,
"I loved talking to Bill Travilla because he had great stories about celebrities and living in Hollywood. He lived in a compound with wild animals and had pictures of himself with tigers and monkeys."
Travilla even held a photo shoot at the Gerhart's private family ranch. Gary remembers thinking that Samuel Winston looked like Alfred Hitchcock and that Oscar de la Renta, though soft spoken and quiet, always smiled and was particularly kind to them as children.
Ginger remembers Pauline Trigere as the epitomy of sophistication and Tina Leser as being especially outgoing and always dressed in bright colored mu-mu's. Leser was a frequent visitor and designed several dresses for Isabell personally. The Gerhart siblings all had stories about Michael Novarese and spoke with a special fondness as they recounted several stories of him visiting them and staying in their home.
Isabell and Norwin Gerhart helped define the fashion world in
Texas and their couture salon was the ultimate in luxury and service.
"I probably met every couture designer from 1955 until 1993."
Ann Gerhart told me. She reminded me that it wasn't only the designers who could lay claim to the title of celebrity as she recounted the story of Isabell sitting next to Farrah Fawcett on the airplane on a trip to New York. "When Farrah found out who she was, she asked her to help her get in to see a designer in New York." Isabell agreed and accompanied Farrah to one of the exclusive designer showrooms.
"It always amazed me how well mom was known. I can't tell you how many times someone would see my name and say, 'Ann Gerhart? Are you related to Isabell?"
I met Isabell and Norwin in the 1980's. Norwin had a quick, dry wit and still dressed as sharply as I assume he did as a younger man. Isabell reminded me of Gena Rowlings and Zsa Zsa Gabor rolled into a texas beauty queen. I was instantly drawn to her. At the time, she had just returned from Caroline Herrera's showroom and was describing being served tea in mis matched antique tea cups. I hung on her every word.
I remember asking her why so many stores like hers were starting to close and she said, "One of the things that people used to be willing to pay for was service. I used to send out several dresses to customers on approval, keep a register of who was wearing what to specific events, and serve husbands refreshments while their wives tried on clothing. Now people aren't willing to pay for that." She believed that American women had become accustomed to drive through service and disposable fashion.
Though they lived a glamorous life and socialized with the rock stars of the fashion industry, their family meant the world to them and as Ginger remembers, "When they were there, we knew they were really there for us." When preparing to write this little tribute to Isabell, I asked her children about their memories of all of the designers. They probably still don't understand my fascination with something that to them seemed so ordinary. But they kindly shared some of their memories with me, and their recollections had one very important thing in common; It wasn't Ceil Chapman, Claire McCardell or Christian Dior who made the biggest impression, it wasn't the clothing that they remembered. Isabell and Norwin Gerhart were the stars of their stories. They were the ones who looked the most beautiful, told the funniest jokes, and seemed to draw the attention of everyone around them. The designers faded into the background as they recalled the two people who took center stage in their lives.
Of their many accomplishments, that would be the one that would make Isabell and Norwin beam with pride.
What is Sexy?
I hear IT all the time, “Do you have anything sexy?” I always cringe at this question and answer with,“Well, what do you consider sexy?” Usually, I get the typical answers that include, low cut, sheer, tight fitting, short, etc.. I’m often bored with trying to find clothing that fits those requirements and to be honest, find that definition of sexy boring as well.
How much lower, shorter, tighter, or sheerer can a piece of clothing get to keep meeting the expectations of the modern version of sexy? When I work with celebrity stylists, it often disappoints me to discover that some are more concerned with finding something shockingly revealing than with finding something that truly defines a style. If I show them an amazing Clare Potter or Ceil Chapman 50’s dress with extraordinary detail and uncompromised quality, they will often tell me that they love the dress, but the neckline is too high. “Not sexy enough..” Once again, I’m bored.
It is always so refreshing to meet a stylist, collector, designer or everyday shopper who understands that sexy isn’t defined by a hemline, neckline, or fabric, and that a beautifully made garment from any era can look sexy on the person who wears it well.
The question of what is sexy is as open ended as the age old query, “What is art?” When I think of sexy, I think of confidence. Confident women who don’t succumb to fashion trends or the opinions of the E! channel, exude an aura that is hard to define, mysterious, and alluring.
Grace Kelly, for example, could be sexy in dresses that might have made other women feel like librarians. When she donned an Edith Head creation in one of her movies or at the Academy Awards, no one could compete with her style, presence and sex appeal. She could wear sportswear and evening gowns with an equal amount of confidence and even the kaftans she wore in her latter years demanded global attention. Grace Kelly defined sexy by being comfortable in whatever she was wearing and by maintaining her own sense of self in a world that tried to impose upon her its own expectations of what sexy should be.
Grace Kelly refused to allow others to write the definition of beauty into the script that was her life. She was more than a pretty face, and like Audrey Hepburn, had a unique compassion for humanity that only accentuated her beauty. When she was leaving Hollywood, she is quoted as having said something that I think characterizes a genuinely sexy woman:
"I'll tell you one of the reasons I'm ready to leave. When I first came to Hollywood five years ago, my makeup call was at eight in the morning. On this movie it's been put back to seven-thirty. Every day I see Joan Crawford, who's been in makeup since five, and Loretta Young, who's been there since four in the morning. I'll be damned if I'm going to stay in a business where I have to get up earlier and earlier and it takes longer and longer for me to get in front of a camera."
I can only hope that everyone reading this will not only define sexy for themselves, but define their own personal style as well. Learn what styles work with your body type, demand quality over quantity, and walk into every room with poise and self assuredness. (Perfect posture always helps). Whether it be an evening gown from the 1940’s, a 50’s party dress, or a pair of jeans and a tee shirt, wear it with the understanding that beauty and sexiness come from knowing who you are and in deciding not to reveal all of it to the world. That kind of sex appeal is timeless, and in my opinion, NEVER boring.

Howard Greer Grecian Gown

Caroline Harrison

Helen Taft

Florence Harding

Eleanor Roosevelt

Mamie Eisenhower

Jacqueline Kennedy
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